Tomorrow Lydia and I will be going to CHOP, one of the country's best children's hospital. She will be tested, yet again, for her hearing capacity. As many of you know Lydia has not been talking clearly, if at all. I had her meet with a new doctor this week. After five minutes this doctor immediately had new plans for us. We are going to be going through many tests and evaluations to get Lydia talking. Doctor Vickers suggests that Lydia has speech delayment and might be having some oral difficulties that prevents her from either being comfortable to talk or making the connections orally to do so. She is also under the impression that it may and has become frustrating for Lydia to socialize and communicate. To start, we have to rule out hearing which is what we will do tomorrow. WISH US LUCK!
Just for a few family members that may be wondering, I asked about possibilities of, more than just speech delay, special needs or handicaps that way. She doesn't think it's pointing that way, but she's also not a specialist.
So, here we GO! BRING ON THE SPECIALISTS!!! I'm very excited about this. Tom and I have been praying and fasting for answers and abilities to help us parent a child who is having a very rough time communicating with us. Try talking to someone with a small sock in your mouth or while brushing your teeth. That is about what it is like listening to Lydia, no doubt she is also feeling the affects of it. That being said, her true colors are just shinning. She is still, for the most part, a sunny and cheery child full of love and laughter, so whatever it is that is hindering us physically it has only made our home stronger spiritually. Just as a plug... the August Ensign has a great parenting article called, "Love, Limits and Lattitude". READ it. YOU WILL love it. I read it over and over just to help me stay on track.
ps, thank you everyone who has wanted to be in "the Know" about Lydia and giving feed back to both Tom and I. Even if it's small, a trial will always be a trial; and we really appreciate the love and concern. I sound like she's on her death bed, she's not, but I may be!!! hahha.
The poor girl. I'm sorry you have to go through such a stressful thing with your family. We will keep you in our prayers and hope everything gets figured out.
ReplyDeleteooh good luck! the dr's at chop are so great - i'm sure they're gonna get this thing figured out. lydia's such a fun happy girl - imagine once she's not frustrated anymore!
ReplyDeleteGood luck, hope everything goes well for you guys.
ReplyDeleteGreta's about to start some speech therapy too. It's not fun worrying about problems that your cute little kid could have. Good luck with the evaluations!
ReplyDeleteHow great that you are near a wonderful children's hospital. The Lord must have send you to Philly for more reasons than you thought. Wish we were there to help take care of Paul while you are at all the testing. We love you and will definitely keep praying for you. Love, John and Maria and Jane
ReplyDeleteSo I just ran across your blog and probably couldn't have picked a better post as my cute Olivia is having a lot of the same problems she turned 2 this month and he language is that of maybe a 15-18 month old so not bad but still delayed. Hearing has pretty much been ruled out as she has passed with flying colors all of her hearing tests, and she actually talks a mile a min you just can understand about 1 in every 10 words. Anyways if they rule out hearing problems could you kind of keep me updated on the stuff they are looking for, that way maybe I could suggest things to Livvy's doctor as he doesn't seemed as concerened as I do. Anyways it was good to see how you are doing your kids are adorable!
ReplyDeleteWishing you the best and keeping you in our prayers! HOpe all goes well at the specialists! Luvs to you!
ReplyDeleteSo how did it all go? Poor Lyd Squid. Good Luck with everything. We're praying for you. Give Lydie and Paul hugs from us :)
ReplyDeleteLove you,
Liz